Focus, attention and brain connections: What's the implication for birthing women?

In this powerful and informative video, Dr. Fred Travis, Director, Center for Brain, Consciousness, and Cognition in Fairfield, Iowa, explains how repeated mental and physical activity builds and develops brain connections. 





What are the implications for birthing women? 


Every time you watch, imagine or identify with a particular way of giving birth, you are reinforcing and building brain connections about that experience.  This video demonstrates clearly how to build the brain patterns that are most beneficial and in line with what you really want. Patterns of neuronal firing have physical, emotional and mental consequences.


Our brain builds new connections when we are in a learning, curious, open state and reinforces commonly used connections constantly.  The other fascinating aspect of human reality is that we screen out anything that doesn't match our 'patterns' of perception. The following video demonstrates the way our brain is very selective about what it lets into our conscious awareness. 


Take note of how many times the people in white shirts pass the ball to each other.




Then read this account of the experiment. 

The big question is how do we use this information to improve our lives and make birth and parenting more what we want it to be?

First, decide what you want - get a clear idea of that.  Then, keep focusing on that which you want. Hang out with those who support what you want. Avoid those who wish to bring them down, or at least, understand they are coming from a fear based perspective, and as you saw in Dr Fred's video, that violent and unhelpful emotional energy causes holes in people's brain function as well as their thinking. 


You can train your brain!  Pianists, Olympians, typists - anyone who has ever mastered anything demonstrates that clearly.  We are truly amazing - neuroscience is demonstrating how capable we really are!

OB Gyn perspective on "OB Patient"

YouTube - OB patient

There is a rash of these mini movies. Clever, 'funny' (?) and short. Humour is a great way of getting a message across.



Ask yourself, what is the message that is being sent with this movie?

Here's another mini movie doing the rounds.



What is the message being promoted in this mini movie about women? What message is being sent about pregnant women?

and then, there is the anaesthetist's perspective on midwifery



I asked someone 'in the know' is that really how 'they' see us? "I'm afraid it is" was the answer.

all in good fun the film maker said. Really?

Words are powerful creators and transmitters of cultural beliefs and habits. What we see and what we hear shape and create patterns of thinking that become our perspective and our reality. These patterns and ideas take a life of their own, becoming a cultural meme and influencing every aspect of our minds, our behaviour and our culture. Emotions make those patterns deeper and stronger. Humour is a great release and can often bring the truth of a situation into a clear light. However, humour can seem benign, but is in reality, a particularly powerful pattern 'fixer' and giving more life to a meme.

I feel deep concern that childbearing women are being profiled in the way that these videos do. Yes, there are women who take advantage of systems and other people. In the main, most women want the best for their babies. Ignorance, abuse, violence and poverty are common themes in the lives of those who take drugs, avoid maternity care and lack education. Objectifying women as these videos do is unkind and leads to the adoption of a negative stereotypical view of anyone who is different and then flows on to include all those who seek choice, control and autonomy.

Maternity care is generally constructed to suit the health care institution and the doctors. For some women, their experience of maternity care is horrendous and deeply traumatising. These women can feel raped, violated and brutalized by their experience.

As Amity Reed writes "we should be striving to make all birthing environments, whether at home or in hospital, both safer and more peaceful and empowering".

Safe, peaceful, empowering birth environments for all women is a meme that is essential for our culture to adopt and create. Pregnancy and birth set the foundations for the future health and wellbeing of the baby.

We all know that anyone can change, grow and develop. Respectful, kind, supportive care that engages the heart of the woman does more to promote growth than unkind objectification and superior attitudes.

Videos like those above create a perspective that is harmful and ultimately degrading what's possible.